像女人一样行动 像男人一样思考

Steve... Stevey Stevey... SteveI know this book 'tries' to address women and females more than men... But I wanted to read it majorly for two reasons...1. Well... it's Steve Harvey... I was looking for some laughs!2. To See how western community valuates relationships, and the differences between the Muslim society and the western society "United States".and......I didn't get the laughs I was hoping myself for, but I found what I was reading this book for,I could see how their relationships are... fragile and hard.. how cheap yet complicated..Issues like, "How much you should wait before you give the "cookie"", or "How long you should wait before he proposes and how long you should wait after the proposal before you set a date for the actual wedding!"..Issues like, Cheating, meeting your kids!, Running away, treating women like sports Fishing "catch a fish then throw it back"..these are all things our religion sat a bunch of rules to control it, only to respect women more, to make sure she's safe, she has her rights, and to live 'literally' happily ever after..there are only two good things in the book to be honest:1. the stories Steve tells about his own work and the relationship with his wife.2. the very last chapter of the book "the questions and answers", can be useful... sort of..otherwise..I had what I was looking for..Thank God for Islam

I have been watching Steve Harvey since i was a kid. Ive grown to understand that he is a realist n this book solidified it. He didn't hesitate to spill the facts n the stuff we already know about them