Boring or Attractive : What are the words that touches

I asked Are you an interesting person?Maybe you would like to ask this suddenly, but please think about how people around you evaluate your way of speaking."This person is so boring to talk to!""It doesn't make sense to listen to that guy any time."Even if someone hasn't said this plainly, it is inevitable that he might think so from the bottom of my heart. "Speaking boringly" is really a fatal weakness in personal life.Because in this world, people who speak "interestingly" have a much easier life than people who "speak boringly."If you speak humorously, you will be welcomed by everyone in school, and you will be more likely to be liked by the opposite sex. In club activities or interest groups, everyone will be more willing to listen to your opinions. In society, better evaluations can also be obtained in the process of business conversations, meeting reviews, presentation reports, and so on.In addition, for example, speeches at wedding ceremonies or eulogy at funerals, greetings at banquets, friendships, blind dates, etc. There are many occasions where speeches are needed. As we all know, on all kinds of occasions, people who talk witty are more likely to make a good impression on others.However, even so, the school does not teach everyone how to speak humorously. In modern society, it is difficult to hone the "speaking ability" in life.Now, unlike in the past, there are fewer children sitting around the dining table, and more and more people eating silently by themselves. Moreover, due to the development of communication devices such as smartphones, there are fewer opportunities for direct conversations between people.In this case, what should we do? Then we have to teach ourselves the skills of witty speaking.